Anal play is nothing to shy away from. The anus has glands that when stimulated can create a lot of pleasure for both penis and vulva owners.

’ve talked a lot about clitoral stimulation on my blog so for this one I want to focus more on the famous G spot and how to incorporate a personal massager like the LELO ENIGMA Wave to achieve blended orgasms.

Did you know there are many benefits to masturbation? When you have an orgasm, your body releases endorphins. These natural chemicals block pain receptors in your brain and can make you feel happier.

Even the words anal play can make some people cringe. Anal play is often associated with a homosexual relationship and because there has been so much hatred and shame towards homosexuals, heterosexual cis men shy away from anything to do with the anus in fear that they will be called ‘gay’.

Picture this; you’ve just headed back to your place after bagging yourself a hot shag! You’re under the sheets and you’ve just closed your eyes as his hands slip inside your underwear.

For many vulva owners the clitoris is the best way to orgasm, so why wouldn’t we focus on it? I love that there are more toys than ever on the market now completely focusing on clitoral pleasure.

I remember when I first heard of the magic wand sex toy. I had seen lot’s of hype online about them for a long time before I actually decided to try it myself. To me it looked scary, quite a large toy with a very intimidating BIG looking head.

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Welcome back to rarebeingdesign.com! In today’s' post I review the LELO IDA ™ Wave sex toy.

Sex toys can make you feel fucking powerful and the toy I review today definitely does that for me!

Connection with your partner is important even more so in a world filled with so many distractions from living in reality.

Vulva’s deserve to be celebrated and seen for what they are, beautiful. I’ve created 3 free colouring pages for you to download and enjoy!

The Satisfyer number 1 is a very popular clitoral toy. But to be honest I don’t rate this one!

Did you know only 25% of cis-women are consistently orgasmic during vaginal intercourse (psychology today, 2009) If you are a woman reading this then I am sure you are not surprised by this fact. If you think about the amount of mediocre sex you have experienced in your life it might out-way the good.

A lot of us believe that our genitals rule when it comes to our sexual behavior but our sexual behavior is controlled by our brain.

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