Sex toys can make you feel fucking powerful and the toy I review today definitely does that for me!

Sex toys are not something to be ashamed of using but instead something to embrace, enjoy and enhance your pleasure.

I can’t tell you how excited I was to try the Vesper vibrator out! This one is perfect for me because I travel a lot for work and wanted a small discreet vibrator for on the go.

This is as small as it gets. And definitely a vibe you can hide in plain sight.

I was off on a work trip recently and decided to take this one with me. I normally only take hand luggage with me so I couldn’t pack the vibrator in checked in luggage.

So I decided to let it hang and wear it as necklace.

A bucket of sweat and one white lie later

I was a little nervous going through security because I really didn’t want them to take it off me. But of course I got stopped! The personnel asked me what it was and, I, for some reason blurted out “it’s a mini muscle massager”! She must have seen the sweat dripping off me because in that moment I thought she wasn’t going to allow me through with it. She looked very puzzling at it, but never the less sent me on my way. Phew! I had to go through the same ordeal on the way back!

Getting to the good stuff

I love to wind down after a long day of work. Slowing down is important.

To get in the mood I start by either listening to Dipsea erotic stories or by simply slowing down and being mindful of all the sensations in my body. If you haven’t done this before I highly recommend it. Practicing mindfulness while engaging in sexual acts can give you mind blowing pleasure. If mindfulness isn’t for you, you could try breathing exercises instead. Once the music was flowing and my mind was in a good place(feeling in the mood really starts in the mind not genitals for women) I applied a small amount of lube and tested out all the settings the Vesper had to offer.

How to use the Vesper

It’s pretty easy to use. As it’s an external vibrator you can rub and dab and flick your clitoris as much as you want to find out what’s most enjoyable for you. I always recommend using lube to enhance pleasure with any sex toy.

Vesper's beauty starts from within.

The body, tip, and chain is made of high polish 316 stainless steel, with three finishes to choose from

Key Features

Whisper Quiet
You can personalize a message on the vibrator which I think makes it such a cool gift idea
Easy Clean - because its made from stainless steel it can easily be wiped clean with a wipe or damp cloth
Multiple purpose - you can wear it as a necklace

How does it weigh up against other toys?

I have to say looking at the Vesper I didn’t think it would be very powerful. But boy she was powerful! Definitely not in the same sort of way as a full size sex toy but in a way that was great for a different sort of orgasm. No two orgasms are the same. You can get different types of orgasms based on the sex act, how you are felling, what toys you use and more. Some are short and sweet, others last longer and feel deeper! This applies to both penetrative orgasms and clitoral orgasms.

The Vesper has multiple settings so play around and find which one works for you!

vesper-lovecrave — Wear it to dinner

Or where ever you want really!
It’s a stunning piece of jewelry!

And then there’s the fact you can wear this around your neck as a piece of jewelry! I fucking love that! I feel so powerful showing up to dinner with this beauty on! No one will know! Any if they do, so fucking what!

So the answer is, there really is no comparing the Vesper to other sex toys because it’s made to be different. It’s small compact size gives you a completely different sensation than a ‘normal’ size sex toy. And by also allowing a person to wear it around their neck it really can’t compare!

Final thoughts

It’s a really great on the go external vibrator. Add some excitement and wear it to dinner and rub one out in the loo as you’re waiting for your dessert to come! If that’s your thing, if not wear it to dinner just to feel powerful!

Overall I would give this toy 4 stars. Mostly because I love that I can wear it round my neck, take it on the go and use it in different places for some extra excitement!

It’s important to note this toy is not made for inserting and should only be used for external use. You can also try applying the vibrator to other areas of the body you like to be touched like your nipples or thighs.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read this review, I hope you’ve enjoyed it. Day by day I work to try and destigmatise female pleasure by speaking openly about sex and masturbation. Sexual wellness needs to be taken just as seriously as our all round health. And women deserve pleasure just as much as men do, if not more, for all the years many of us missed out believing the peen was all that mattered!

All hail the vulva!

*The vesper was gifted by lovecrave.com